I’m about to get married shortly and have just discovered my bridesmaids have organised a secret hen do two weeks before the wedding. Big mess as my only request was definitely no hen in any format ( I absolutely detest hen parties, a number of my close friends are male and have very few female friends, and have warned them on a regular basis not to do anything of the sort). I only know part of what’s planned but numbers have swelled but there’s only about 3 distant friends / relatives of mine on the list. costs involved are astronomical and the plans I’ve discovered to date are something I would never do. I’m 100% on cancelling and will cover everyone’s costs so no one including bridesmaids are out of pocket. However I need a good solid reason to put in an email to all attendees other than – i bloody hate hens and am freaking out at the thought of having to partake in this??? Advice?
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